I work in parties....loud, hot, steamy, sweaty parties with all types of men and women. Tall, short, skinny, muscled, piggy, overweight....all walks of life. It's amazing.
I love the variety of kinks, turn ons, the tops, the bottoms, the pups, the sub slaves on leashes....it all adds to the flavor and the "realness" of being truthful to what makes you tingle.
But......and sometimes it smells like a big BUTT...the body odor can be overwhelming.
So here is my soapbox. I like to be dirty when I am out mowing the lawn, tilling the soil, or cutting firewood. I understand body odor after playing a game, running, lifting, or even dancing...but that's a different kind of body odor.....it's an odor that develops after sweating and it doesn't have that "peal paint off the walls affect" as the odor when someone refuses to shower.
Men will be men....they will develop a scent and thats fine....but coming to a party and not showering for two days before....REALLY!?!?!?!
There are people that I see at parties that I LOVE...I genuinely think they are wonderful people but when I see them I duck and run the other way because they STINK. Not just stink...they actually smell like a rotten barnyard. And on top of that they have no etiquite about body contact. They will joyfully rub all over you like a deer in rut and after the encounter and hug of hello you too will smell like the bottom of used jock strap basket at the Folsom Street Fair.
So here are my recommendations if you are a piggy, stinky, proud, soap avoiding, dirty, gay man. Do the Oprah hug and the Drag Queen kiss....no body contact required....love your hair hope you win...but don't touch my skin!